Skip to main content

The Quest for an Education

As I've mentioned before, a few years ago I attended Salt Lake Community College. To briefly recap, even though I had a high GPA, I hit a road block that permanently weeded me out of academia - I couldn't afford tuition one semester.

Like most students in the United States, I had taken out thousands of dollars in loans to gain access to school. But, having grown up low-income, I was terrified about facing a future consumed by debt. Especially knowing that I'm taking a huge risk with school in the first place, where, as a high school dropout, the likelihood that I'd be weeded out was high. So one semester I refused to take out financial aid. I attempted to pay for it myself, about $1,000, out-of-pocket.

Soon, it was clear that this wasn't realistically possible. I was not able to pay for a semester out-of-pocket.

I couldn't, for the life of me, figure out how or where to get $1,000. So the college froze my records. As I worked to save up enough to pay my debt, the community college quickly sold it to a collection agency. Who subsequently doubled the amount owed.

Fast forward to three years later, where I had resolved that my fantasy of being the first in my family to obtain a college degree was in the past. I had, like thousands of others, dropped out of college. Despite my good grades and high GPA, I'd been 'weeded out' and pushed out of the rungs of U.S. higher education. Not due to being a poor student - but entirely due to money.

It really upset me. And it felt like yet another insurmountable wall, barring me from pursuing a trajectory that I had the right to pursue.

But the day has finally come. Two hours ago my debt to Salt Lake Community College was paid off. From saving what I could and with the help of my brother (who has landed himself a well-paying computer programming job), it's actually been paid.

Wow.

It doesn't feel real yet. And I'm so appreciative for his help.

I'm going to go back to school. ASAP.

Comments

  1. I gotta say Mel, your brother is way more awesomer than mine! Congrats dude! That's fantastic news! I'm really happy for you :)

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

PART 1: Double Incision Mastectomy with Nipple Grafts by Dr. Cori Agarwal Surgery Photos (EXTREMELY GRAPHIC)

Earlier today I learned that Dr. Cori Agarwal’s medical secretary would come in to take photographs during my 3 hour surgery on August 11, 2011. As a warning, these photos are extremely graphic , but also incredibly informative and educational. This is why I’m displaying them after the “read more” button below instead of as a photo gallery. Extremely Graphic:

Exciting News from Utah!

Exciting things are happening in Salt Lake City, Utah! Last night there was a panel specifically about employment discrimination based on gender identity and a proposed diversity bill. It received a fair amount of media coverage, like this article in the Salt Lake Tribune: After losing her job, transgender Utahn fights workplace discrimination Salt Lake City resident Candice Metzler wanted to let her work colleagues see the transition she already had begun in her personal life. Known to them as a man, Metzler wore mascara, eyeliner and white-tipped acrylic nails to a company barbecue. Read more > or this coverage from Fox 13: link no longer available It's refreshing to see that there's friendlier coverage of transgender people, even in such a conservative GOP state. The above coverage even ended with: "if you're an employer open to hiring transgender individuals" there's a link on their site to DiversityJobs.com ! Just 6 months ago the bills und...

TrannySaurus Rex: Take 2

Transtastic shirt that my friend, Nick James , made for my birthday. Thank you, Nick!