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The Transgender Tipping Point

I was so ecsactic when I heard that Laverne Cox would be the first transgender person to grace the cover of TIME Magazine earlier this month.


The second I heard about this, I knew that I absolutely had to have a copy. Custom framed, preferably signed by Laverne Cox, prominently displayed on my wall. I imagine myself still having it in my elder years, explaining to youngins what this represented to me as a young transgender person in 2014.

As Kat Hache put it:
It is validation not only of Laverne Cox’s work, but the work of the entire transgender community.  It is a visible, tangible representation of our existence.
It’s a really, really big deal.

After not stumbling upon a copy by mid-June, a friend and I started really digging around for it. Baffled, we couldn’t find a single copy anywhere. After finally landing ourselves at a Barnes n Noble, an employee explained that their magazine stock was limited due to a major magazine distributor in the east coast shutting down earlier this month.

Ah, so that explained it.

Immediately, I asked my parents to find me a copy in Utah. They also had no luck, but my mom recalled seeing a copy at her dentist’s office.

Low and behold, TIME Magazine is a weekly magazine - not monthly. By the time we'd started looking for it, TIME was on to another issue. Ugh! Embarrassing!

But guess what my mom just texted me a picture of?


My own very copy, straight from the dentist!

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  1. Hey there. I would love to discuss top surgery with you as I am also trans, from utah and considering dr agarwal for my surgery! My email is ktnorman14@gmail.com or my tumblr is themannotinthemirror.tumblr.com thanks bud.

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    1. Hey Kiahl! My apologies for the delay in responding. I've been in the midst of transitions galore. Grad classes have just begun and I am now sending you an e-mail! :)

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